Haha. I know exactly what you mean abou using the whole "it's just meant to be idea" to avoid dissapointment. Or really, avoid any connection with your life: responsibility, in both a good and a bad sense. You never have to be guilty but never can be proud, either. Sorry, I was thinking about that earlier.

I haven't seen the freezer either, but hopefully it's inhabitants,regardless of their attire (or lack thereof) are smart enough to let you in, and stupid enough to let me in.